Is violence ever OK? That is a pretty good question. Most people will say it is not OK to
be violent, but these people also don’t try to look at things in a different way. Violence
can be acceptable in some situations, but you have to watch yourself to not overdo it, or
you will end up killing that poor guy. It is good to ventilate your anger through
violence, because if you don’t, you may end up hurting someone who does not deserve it.
There is many options, of course — for example, boxing bags. But the boxing bag is still
just a boxing bag.When you are angry at a guy who slept with your girlfriend,
why should you hit that boxing bag when you can break his nose? When somebody was
slandering you behind your back and said some horrible things about you, why should you
hit that boxing bag and not bitch-slap him? I think everybody finds revenge and occasional
violence quite satisfying. Have you ever seen interviews with boxers, kickboxers or any
other professional fighter? I have seen a few, and I’ve noted one thing about them: they
are always really tranquil. And why is that so? They participate in violent sports, and
they ventilate their anger regularly. It is all about perfect harmony between peace and
violence. Violence leads to peace. And peace leads to violence.I am not
telling anyone to go out and fight innocent people, but to take a look at violence in a
different perspective. I had one awful situation more than a year ago. I was into one girl
and my friend was hitting on her behind my back the whole time. Somehow she decided that
he is better boyfriend material than me and they started dating. And they didn’t even tell
me about it! One day my friend and I decided to go for a few beers after a
hard day. We walked into the bar and there they were. I was shocked. I wanted to stay and
pretend that it’s nothing, but I couldn’t. After a while, I left to get some fresh air and
take a deep breath, but I was so angry I came downstairs and called him outside. I punched
him in the face and he lost consciousness (I overdid it by using incredible power that was
caused by my unventilated anger). That was the point when i thought to myself: Is he dead?
I felt really great after I made sure that he was alive. He got what he
deserved and after some time, the three of us talked about it and apologized for our
mistakes. I gave them my blessing and we are friends to this very day. I used violence in
a situation where he deserved it, and I don’t see anything wrong about it. It was my right
and I had to defend my vanity. Of course you can prevent these situations by the already
mentioned ventilation, but the choice is yours. The point is, you can and in some
situations you should use violence to get what you want, or to prove something, or for
some other reasons. Violence is not always the bad way to deal with things and it can be
really helpful.-Alexander
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